Below you will find a copy of the letter I sent to you on February 9, 2025. I made a separate letter for each of you but I changed the names to “girls” so I only needed to place it here one time. These letters were sent to your home address.

Girls,

There is so much I don’t know…I know your mother took you to a bunch of different therapists until she found one that would help her manipulate you. I know they led you to allegedly “recover” horrible things that I had done to you and your sister over the years. I have read what was in the court paperwork. What I don’t know is what I can do to combat these things that never happened? So let’s take a look at this Dr. Phil Style!

If you look at this through a Dr. Phil lens…I believe I can prove you’ve been manipulated to believe I’m this horrible monster. First, let’s look at my current goals:
For you to be healthy and happy.
For you to have a job/career so you can make choices in your life.
For you to let me and your Ky Family be a part of your life.
How would Dr. Phil feel about those goals? Not a monster yet, right?

I am not asking for things–I don’t need you to support me, or tell me how thankful you are, I don’t need anything from you…but I want to have a relationship with you. Now, why would a monster want to have that with you now? If I were (and I’m not) this monster of a dad that you believe I am, why would I want to talk to you now? What benefit would I receive Girls? If I were a pedophile, you’re a grown woman, you would not be desirable to me any longer. You are miles away, why not just write you off and move on? If I were this monster, why would I continue to worry about you? Try to contact you? Try to take care of you from a distance? What would Dr. Phil say about those things?

Well maybe I’m trying to use you, maybe I need you to stay out of jail? Nope, I’m not worried about jail, or clearing my name. Do you think the monster needs you to do that for him? Goodness no, the jury found I had done nothing wrong. They ruled that your testimony was coerced and not true. At this point, Dr. Phil would look into the research about “discovered memories” and see how often they are used by mothers to turn their children against their dad. I have no legal benefit to talk to you. If I were this monster wouldn’t it be better for me to save my time and money and just look for my next young victim? I mean, my reputation is preserved, I could be a foster parent, adopt, I could do all of these other things to guarantee a steady stream of young vulnerable children to be left with me. Yet I don’t do any of that, I have just tried to see you and talk to you and take care of you all this time…not very monster of me.

LET’S TALK HISTORY AND FACTS DR. PHIL

If I were a monster (and I’m not), why did I let you stay in a room with your sister? I mean, to molest kids, it would be much easier I think if you had them alone…no reason for pesky witnesses to hear or be in the room when that stuff went on, right? You all never slept in separate rooms, the whole time you were with me. Why wouldn’t I put you in your own rooms girls, if I were a monster?

Why did I install a lock on your door? Remember? You didn’t even have a door in Florida, yet I made sure you had a door that locked here. Not only did you have a lock on your bedroom door, I also made sure your bathroom locked too. Why did I insist that you be clothed when you came out of the shower? I mean, If I’m the type of guy who gets my jollies by looking at little kids, why wouldn’t I encourage you to come out of that bathroom naked, or with just a towel. I scolded you whenever you forgot your clothes, and I told you why. Never let you run around the house at any age without clothes on. Why did you never ever see me without clothes? Not once your whole life. I had a locked door the whole time when I showered. Seems like a pervy guy would want you to “accidentally” see him…that never happened…not even when you were babies. If I’m a monster, boy I’m sure not doing a very good job of doing the monster things. What would Dr. Phil say about this stuff?

2 more, then I’ll stop

Why did I buy you the guns(pellet rifles), and let you keep them in your room? I mean c’mon, if I’m a predator, the last thing I want to do is arm my victims. That is just stupid. Why give your victims the ability and opportunity to protect themselves? That makes zero sense from a monster perspective. I not only taught you how to shoot guns, how to aim and fire, I bought you both those high dollar ROTC pellet rifles and let you keep them in your room. Seems I’m a pretty stupid monster to arm you and show you how to defend yourself against monsters. You kept machetes in your beds…again, why in the world would I make you go bags and buy you machetes if I was doing something that would make you need to use them on me?

Finally, what about the argument that I only did it when you were very small, like 2 I believe she said? First of all, I didn’t get to see you 15 months straight because of the lies and things she pulled in New York Court. Guess how old you were? 2. I never saw you when you were 2 years old babe, not one day of it. Never even got to talk to you. What does Dr. Phil have to say about that? And when I did get to see you at 3, most of the time it was in a hotel room in Newburgh, NY (Room 225) with our whole family in one room together. When you were in KY, we were living in Mamaw and Papaw’s house until you were older. And let’s just be honest, do some research, have you found many pedophiles who just did stuff a few times and then stopped? I supposedly did this horrible thing when you were too young to remember and then…I stopped? Pedophiles don’t just stop girls. So now I’m a monster that can stop?

I taught elementary school for nearly 20 years before I became a principal. During that 20 years I taught well over 1,000 students…and NONE of them ever said anything pervy about me. Zero. The story your mom tells, the way she tells it, is a lie. Does it not seem weird to you that she took you to 6 different therapists before she finally found one who could “uncover” those memories? Didn’t she test you every year for abuse when you got back home? (you never told me that, Henry let me know) Not once was there any evidence. Not once. So now I’m a monster that can commit crimes and leave no trace of evidence behind. What would Dr. Phil say about that? Taken by themselves, you might explain away each of these paragraphs, but every one of them? What about her? How trustworthy has she shown herself to be this whole time? How would Dr. Phil treat us on that stage girls?

Do you remember the first book you ever read to me? The Monster at the End of this Book. You heard how scary and horrible the monster was the whole time, and when you finally got to the last page, it was lovable furry old Grover. Who knew that book would be about us? You have been told about this raging monster for page after page, year after year but in the end, it’s just me. I love you. Always will. Believe me, don’t believe me…facts won’t change. I have always looked out for you. I still am. I miss you. I wish you would talk to me. Your absence in my life has hurt so much. But I’m not going to push. I’ll just be here when you are ready. You are missing out on a wonderful family here in Kentucky, a family that has supported you, fought for you and misses you so much. I hate that the most. It’s your loss.